You've just got your hair done, feeling fab as your fresh blow out is grooving in the breeze. Your body's draped in an effortless, sexy ensemble, feeling confident as each garment elegantly hugs you in just the right places. You've got your MAC make-up painted on perfectly, feeling completely made up with a fierce red lip! You look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself "Yes! I Did That!" in your Tamar Braxton voice. #shewon You turn to your man for confirmation and all he says is NOTHING!!! LOL
Don't you hate when you look your best and your guy doesn't mention a thing? In many cases (at least in a good relationship) it's not that he doesn't actually notice how stunning you look, it's either they are too busy in the mirror looking at themselves awaiting you to cosign their appearance, glued to the TV because it's the last play of the game and it's a MUST see (my man all day,every day!! lol), their brains are so bogged down with work and forgot to leave it at the front door, video games got them captivated or they feel like you already know how beautiful you are...didn't think they needed to tell you!
We have ALL experienced this! It used to drive me crazy...all that effort to go unnoticed is a crime lol In my situation, my husband (WES) would always tell me how great I looked, BUT when the day was over, in that final hour when my make up was faded, I'm wearing flats because my heels have worn me out and my blow out is no longer grooving :( They'll hit you with this line, "Baby, you know you looked amazing tonight right?" Ugh! In the words of Drake "better late than never, but NEVER late is better!" (but still I smile and tell him thanks anyway because I love him and he still manages to see the beauty after the day has had its way with me:) )
I've just had several conversations with friends over the past several week about this and it was hilarious, to say the least, how similar our stories were! So, calling all men!! When you see your girl looking her absolute best (and even when shes not so glammed up because natural beauty is by far the best!) take the time and tell her she's beautiful at first glance! We LOVE and need that :)
Comment if this has happened to you!!
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